obiken wrote:The article seemed to hype it you can check the PI and see if I misquoted, if so I am sorry. I hope he doesn't. My Favorite Hawk back is still Curt Warner!
I don't like him as a person but as a player he is par excellence.
NorthHawk wrote:The only thing he has consistently done "wrong" is ignore the media. Other than doing some stupid things in real life that many if not most of us have done, I don't think he's been a bad role model. He's hard working, gives 100% effort, doesn't complain, respects his team mates and opponents, and has focused on and succeeded in his life to be in a position where he has the right to express in his own way his displeasure at the current state of the league. He's taken himself from being a kid from nowhere to being a multimillionaire by hard work alone. Isn't that the story we all want to see?
Some say he's thumbing his nose at authority. It's the NFL and it's contradictory messages he's resisting, not society.
NorthHawk wrote:"He also ignored the POTUS. And as far as being a bad role model, do you really want your son or daughter celebrating by grabbing their crotch?"
I would have a talk with them, but I wouldn't set my hair on fire about it.
My talk would be something along the lines of once you have become one of the best in the world, you have the right to express yourself.
Until then, work as hard as he has towards that goal and once there, do as you want - as long as you don't embarrass the family.
HumanCockroach wrote:Sometimes I wonder if this debate is a generational thing. I love individuality, and to me Lynch is certainly an individual, and while some of his actions I would have an issue with from my son, and would certainly talk to him about ( crotch crab thing) making it seem like he is doing it each and every game or touchdown is ridiculous, he hasn't and wouldn't have even IF the NFL had said nothing.
As for skipping the WH visit, whatever, some people hold the office in "high esteem" some don't, personally I don't feel the need to put the office or the man higher than any person I have ever met, and don't believe in levels of importance being adjusted for the amount of power an individual holds. Maybe that is just me, or maybe it's my generation, but making a huge deal out of Lynch not attending something that means nothing ( and no no matter how much someone wants to make it into to something, it is no more than a gathering of press yet again, and a bunch of slapping each other on the back) players aren't changing government policy, or improving race relations, or setting an "example" everyone seems so enamored with, they are accepting an award, letting the media witness it, and nothing else. IF it WAS something important, does anyone believe the NFL would allow players to miss it? Of course not. It's a "priviledge" and last I checked, no one is required to participate in a priviledge, nor should they be chastised for choosing not to. Lynch "earned" it, and then decided not to take advantage of it.
As for thumbing his nose at the NFL big wigs? So what? If anyone deserves to made a joke ( not like they need help in this regard) it's the NFL and their hypocritical, double talking, BS spewing,selves. The NFL management is a joke top to bottom, that cares only about their bottom line, uses players for their profit, and some aren't falling in line, because of their history of doing so, and it isn't in the least limited to Lynch.
I'm a history buff and very sensitive to the cost of the liberties we enjoy and get easily agitated when I see signs of disrespect
HumanCockroach wrote:I find this a fascinating statement, as I was always taught, and led to believe that expressing ones individuality and feelings, as well as choosing how to live ones life, and what someone does with that life, is indeed one of the liberties that were fought for, and that includes things like not going somewhere or doing something you don't "want" to do, whether you have a good reason in other peoples eyes or not. Whether you want to talk or not, whether you want to express yourself in a way people like or not ( as long as it breaks no rules, or laws, which Lynch did NOT do no matter how the NFL wants to swing it, Lynch did something that wasn't against the rules, and they had to MAKE a new rule to cover it, or in this case, they used a vague rule to do so)....
Seems to me RD, that you are missing the POINT of freedom and liberty if you are going to chastise Lynch for doing exactly what those people sacrificed to create.
( FYI according to Lynch's mother, her sister was extremely sick ( passed away recently from cancer) and Lynch skipped the visit to be with his family. At no point IMHO should a visit to the WH, or a media glad handing back slapping event, ever be placed in front of family. Like the man said, he cares about the people he faces at home, the ones who love him)
HumanCockroach wrote: not sure why other people do, but all I can come up with, is they don't like the way he looks, or speaks ( ie he is from the hood, and sounds like it, and looks like it)
Hawktown wrote:Hope Lynch stays but if he retires, I understand too.
HumanCockroach wrote:I do indeed find it interesting that some are so put off by Kaepernicks head phone thing, though I would venture a guess that most of those posters who are put off by it, are the same ones insisting that Lynch should forgo being with family in that instance to visit the WH ( you can claim it is a "once in a lifetime opportunity" RD, but is it? Seattle was 36" from going back this year as I recall, and I DO know a terminal illness is INDEED a "once in a lifetime" event.) It's unfortunate IMO that you place an office over the health of your family, or just your family in general, but that is your right and I respect it fully. Just like I respect Lynch's right to live, and prioritize his life however he deems appropriate.
Lynch isn't supposed to be a kids role model, that falls on the parents shoulders, however, with the exception of two instances in the last 3 years, I don't see ANYTHING that is a problem in that regrd. He doesn't talk to the media? True, but he also isn't b*tching publicly, or whining about things players make a habit of doing in the public, he also isn't doing a thing wrong in that regard. He grabbed his crotch two whole times? Dear lord, save the children. I don't remember were you upset or outraged when the NFL put Jackson on that SB stage, and he did so 34 times? How about this year when the half time show consisted of pop songs about having underage sex, or kissing a girl and liking it, or just plain getting busy??? I didn't hear a public outcry about the "obscenity" of that, what about the kids watching that??? An NFL ENDROSED half time show, singing about sex, and making bad choices, but I'm supposed to get worked up about a 2 second grab an athlete makes during the course of a football game? You have got to be kidding.
Ultimately Lynch is a private person that spends his time helping his community, and being around those he loves, just don't see that as a poor role model, not sure why other people do, but all I can come up with, is they don't like the way he looks, or speaks ( ie he is from the hood, and sounds like it, and looks like it) it certainly isn't based solely on his actions on the field, or the community.
And yes, I heard about Lynch's excuse for snubbing the Prez, and all I can say is that if it were my family, they'd be extremely discouraged if I skipped the event for almost any reason short of a lifetime event. An unacceptable excuse if you ask me.
I find it interesting how some of us were so put off by Colin Kaepernick and his refusal to take off his headphones in an interview, yet when it comes to some of Lynch's antics, we'll make up excuses for him that are as lame as my dog ate my homework
HumanCockroach wrote:Um, so in your book finding out your Aunt is dying isn't a "once in a life time event"? You can feel it's a lame excuse ( I don't happen to agree) but ultimately, that isn't your or my place to say so, is it?
As for Kaepernick, I never joined in on the head phones issue, I could care much less about appearance or impressions, gues I just have a habit of giving people the chance to show me if they have substance. I absolutely hate, false bravado, and phonies, I absolutely hate hearing platitudes, and cliches, I would much rather hear and see someone real, and true to who they are than all of the fake phony garbage that guys like Brady, or Romo throw at the media, which is a big reason I find myself more involved with this team, than I was pretty much ever before in my life. Lynch may not be your cup of tea, but he is real, and is who he is. I can live with that. I don't hold a huge amount of respect for fake kissasses that move forward in life because of it.
Mr. Kaepernick, I suppose could be different ( as he grew up in a middle class home, neighborhood etc) but I still could care less how he chooses to present himself. I'll leave that to others to do, who tend to think everyone should dress, look and talk the same. Just isn't my bag.
kalibane wrote:Small distinction here. I don't think a ton of people defending Lynch right now were terribly concerned with Kaep's headphones or the way he dressed post game. I count myself among that group.
That being said given a choice I would rather have my QB dress like Wilson or Manning for post game stuff. At the same time it's not my choice and ultimately it's a small issue that doesn't really matter all that much.
My issue with Kaep has always been his demeanor in post game press conferences, namely the stark difference in his willingness to engage after a loss compared to after a win and his inability to ever give credit to a team that beats him. I'd rather him be like Lynch and just not talk to the media than behave like a spoiled child.
mykc14 wrote:I don't really care that much about this either, but I will say there is a major difference between worry about what Kaep is doing and worrying about what Lynch is doing. I don't like Kaep's overall 'persona' in his post-game pressers. The headphones, dress, and demeanor are all aspects of it (although I don't really care that much it just rubs me the wrong way) and the ONLY reason I feel that way is because he is their QB. If Frank Gore acted like that I wouldn't care at all. IMO, right or wrong, there is a huge difference between your RB acting like that and your QB. In the same way it would be unacceptable, IMO, if RW acted like Lynch. Refusing to talk to the media, grabbing his crotch, or not going to the POTUS (unless there were some life or death reason) as it is I don't really care that Lynch didn't do it but the QB HAS to. That's all to say, IMO, the responsibility of a RB and QB are different so it isn't really a good comparison.
HumanCockroach wrote:Sorry RD, they had just found out, and he wanted to be with his family. I don't care if his sister had a cancerous cist being removed and wanted to be there when she came home. Family obviously in his world is more important than a made up ceremony to acknowledge his acomplishments. It isn't for you or I to say a man SHOULD be somewhere, because we aren't him. Period. You can attempt to put that lipstick on your pig all you want, but that IS what "freedom" is, whether you want to or not. Lynch had no responsibility to be somewhere he didn't want to be, regardless of the situation.
As for a "statement" you are f*$@ing kidding right? You think Lynch, was going to contact the media and issue a "statement"? Seriously? LMFAO. Lynch doesn't owe a single person an "excuse" for not doing something that YOU want him to do. That is NOT how "freedom" works. He isn't our kid, he isn't someone we control, and he isn't some sort of employee that needs an excuse to not attend something that is not required.
Your statements in this regard, are simply wrong. The man can live, do and act however he wants as long as it does not break the law. You have zero idea how important his Aunt was to him, or his mother, or his family. Whether you deem it a "lame excuse" or not doesn't mean anything. To anyone but you, and you alone.
I know if my family was going through something life altering, I would have skipped it as well, and never had a second thought about it. According to what you have posted, only the death of someone you love is a "good excuse" to avoid going to the WH, so what good would it have been to "make a statement"? And the idea that Lynch was going to express what he was going through, to the media ( or anyone else for that matter) is beyond dumb, considering what we know about Lynch's privacy issues.
RiverDog wrote:He also ignored the POTUS.
Seahawks4Ever wrote:The only thing I don't like about Lynch is the grabbing of his balls.
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